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shaktigardens is a venue in Johannesburg South Africa with events and therapies to honour and encourage the Goddess in all women.

Wednesday, February 7, 2018

Tantric Sensual Healing for women

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many women desire to experience Tantric healing massage but seem unsure or afraid to step forward into this unique journey of awakening and transformation.

Sadly some male practitioners have used this as an opportunity to misrepresent Tantra and its teachings and therefore misled many females 

Tantra is a wonderful philosophy and source of teaching for spiritual growth, it offers many wonderful guidelines for our lives and creates a deeper sense of awareness from within

What we have seen over a number of years are practitioners who offer nothing - no teaching - no guidance - just a basic massage or "feather touches" then they focus on the Yoni and orgasm

Sadly this is not the way - this is not the path to healing and understanding

What is actually accomplished by this - very little - and the female who has encountered this leaves feeling empty 

What we try to offer is some form of teaching and guidelines to help you create your own new awareness of your inner being - to help you understand energies and breathing technique. We take time to talk to get to know you and understand you and allow you safe space to share your fears or or your joys, to allow you time to ask questions so you have clarity with regards to Tantra and the essence it provides for your life journey

Only then do we begin the physical healing process and during that process there is guidance and teaching with regards to breathing techniques - your chakras and energy shifts. So you feel and understand more what is happening in the body mind and spirit - you feel as you open up to all of this and embrace it. 

We never expect you to be nude for your sessions, there are reasons for this - some might feel shy or conservative - some might have been hurt, insulted or abused in the past and therefore we need to be sensitive to each individual and their needs. There are some who are comfortable being nude and that is fine - we work according to each individual and tailor our work to each individual

Each session is unique. We never demand that client return for a number of sessions nor do we expect payment up front for a set of sessions. Some might just need one session and they need to go home and think and absorb what they experienced - they need time to rest in this and when they are ready they will come back for another session. Others see the need to have a session once a month yet others are comfortable having healing once every  three months

Each individual reacts differently to healing - each has their own energetic level - each has their own perception and understanding - each has their own needs and therefore it is up to the individual to return in their own time for their session which is tailored to suit their needs and comfort levels. 

I cannot and will not prescribe a set of session and claim then they will be healed after that number of session. Not even a doctor or physician will make claims like that 

The massage in itself is very thorough and detailed, working with the back first and offering a deep detailed Hot Stone Massage (yes we do massage with the Basalt Stones and never just place them on your back) - during this process we awaken you to Chakras, their importance to the body and how to use breathing techniques to restore energies

Only then do we work with the legs

Once all this is completed do we begin with the front of the body, ensuring that the client is comfortable and at ease, her breathing is calm. The the work with legs begins, we do massage the inner and upper thigh and into groin for lymph drainage, and from there we massage the belly and chest, arms and hands. We return to the bell and work close to the Yoni - shifting energy gently awakening a deeper awareness. We might place our hand over the Yoni and other hand on heart chakra, but this is done with permission. Some women might be ready to receive Yoni massage others need time to rest in this. 

The purpose of Tantric healing is not superficial genital stimulation nor creating a sense of needing orgasm - it is deeper than that. It is about respecting mind body spirit, guiding someone with unconditional love, no judgement, just pure intent so they might receive the healing they desire and sense the respect and dignity offered to them. 

It does not matter what age, or body shape you have - it is the spirit that is inside you that is revered and honored

Once the session has finished and the client steps out of the studio - that is not the end of the process but stepping out is the beginning of a new journey of awareness and wholeness

And we wait for their return to experience more in their own time

Sensual Massage for men

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Many gents seek a genuine healing sensual massage and some prefer to have a basic massage with "happy ending".

There are many workers who offer the "happy ending". What this entails is a basic back rub, tummy tickle and then the gent is brought to orgasm through manual stimulation by a female. These sessions usually take about 20 or 25minutes.

What we offer is a genuine sensual healing massage which can restore libido and awaken the senses to touch and arousal. These massages are detailed and thorough, we work with the whole body and integrate the body from head to toe and back to head again. Our massages take at least 90minutes to complete.

What can you expect?
The female therapist will guide you into a relaxed state by teaching you to breathe correctly and to focus on your senses.She will offer a detailed back massage and detailed Hot Stone Massage afterward.

From there she will then work with the feet, calves and thighs.

Only after the back work is completed will she then work with the front of the body, starting with the feet, calves and thighs. This will include working on the inner thigh and into groin for lymph drainage. Yes she does offer a detailed massage and she does work with the belly and close to the genital area. This does not mean you get the basic "manual manipulation" or "wank you off" to achieve a "happy ending", she works with dignity and respect, honoring the body and spirit, and if Lingam Massage is offered it is done with total reverence and respect as she guides you with breathing and awareness. The work is sensual in nature and it is natural for a gent to have an erection and we are quite comfortable with that.

This sensual healing work is about what you receive and how your body reacts or feels during the process. 

We do have certain rules and guidelines that must be respected. Therefore the gent will not receive sex nor penetrate the therapist. Nor do we allow the gent to try and undress the therapist, nor is he allowed to touch her in an inappropriate manner. He does not receive any oral stimulation nor is any form of sexual advances or sexual touching allowed.

We respect the integrity of Tantra and we honor its teaching and its core values - we are here to honor and respect those whom we come into contact with    

Should you be interested in making an appointment please feel free to call Don and he will then make arrangements for you to have a session with Skye or will give you her number so you can chat direct with her

Be blessed
Don
082 961 5454

Couples Sensual Massage

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Many couples enjoy having their massage together, and many of those couples enjoy having sensual massage.

Now we have to discern between sensual massage and sexual massage. There are many people out there who offer what can be defined as sexual massage. What the couple might experience during this process is a basic back rub, if they lucky their legs might receive the same treatment, then whoever is offering this service will do a belly rub and after that just bring clients to orgasm.

With Tantric sensual healing massages we focus on each individual and their needs, from restoring energies to teaching them to breathe correctly and assist them in understanding how the body receives pleasure and how it awakens to the renewed sexual energies.

We begin with a detailed back massage and during this process we guide the couple to breathe correctly and therefore assist them into deeper relaxation. We do work with the Chakras and we explain the meaning of the Chakras and their importance. 

Then we offer Hot Stone Massage - this is done in such a way that you are actually massages with Hot Stones - we DO NOT just place the stones on your back and leave the room. Actual massage with stones is offered. Then while the stones rest on your back (after massaging) we do detailed work on the feet, calves and thighs. We also massage the inner thigh

When working with the front of the body one must never just accept partial work on legs or accept that the belly is left out of this process. With genuine massage the therapist offers a detailed thorough massage and integrates the body from head to toe and back up again - and massage MUST include the belly.

When we work with the front we begin with feet and calves, we do detailed work on the upper and inner thigh and into groin for lymph drainage. The belly is massaged as well as chest arms and hands.

We do not demand that a client be nude for massage, if a client is shy or conservative we assure them that underwear may be worn and also a towel is placed over their hips if they require that. Some clients are more free with their body and comfortable being nude for massage.

Either way, is fine for us - we work according to the client's needs and their comfort levels

The manner in which the massage is offered is sensual and our teaching with breathing techniques helps shift sexual energy. It also creates deeper awareness within of sensuality and sexuality and opens up the client to be more receptive to touch and possibly arousal by their partner. This process can also intensify orgasm.

Our treatments are never rushed and you can expect to spend at least 90 minutes for your massage experience

Be blessed
Don