Oh how this subject pops up from time to time. There is still so much misunderstanding today about the differences between sensual healing massage and sexual massage, and of course the others that get thrown into equation, erotic massage and pelvic massage.
First of all, if you are looking for a quick sexual thrill and you are wanting to receive an erotic massage or even a pelvic massage (and the healing process is secondary in your mind), then I will recommend you look at the classified section of most newspapers today. There are so many people offering this type of service. The only problem I see happening when people frequent these places is that they eventually leave there feeling empty, unsatisfied and sometimes guilty. In most cases the client will receive a quick back rub lasting no more than 10 or 15 minutes, after which they turn over and receive a belly rub, and then, the focus of attention is entirely on offering a pelvic or genital massage. There is no genuine healing process, no balancing of chakras, and definitely no harmony experienced in mind, body or spirit. Just emptiness!
I have received calls where I have been asked if Shakti Gardens is a "massage parlour" or if we "got pretty young ladies". I then have to say "NO" to both these questions. We are here to honor our clients and treat them with respect. We are trying to assist people to re-connect with their inner desires, to release their dormant sexual energies, to make them more aware that they are unique. To assist them with understanding Tantra and its principles and ethics, and to lead them on a path of self discovery, and a new found awareness of their sexuality and sensuality.
Many people today still have sexual issues, body image issues and have a burning need to feel accepted, they have a need to be touched, admired, needed, and want to experience feelings of desire. Because of bad information from friends while growing up, tough upbringing where parents have been critical of everything, as well as imposing harsh restrictive (misinformed) view points during puberty, these people have become victims of distorted views on their own sexuality and sensuality. Some feel undesireable, unwanted, guilty, and even feel repulsive to themselves and to others.
When they start exploring the teachings of Tantra they slowly begin to understand themselves better. They begin to realise they are Divinely inspired creations, they develop a better understanding of who they are and what they are. They begin a journey in which they become thankful in everything and become more comfortable within themselves, and this in turn rubs off on others. They also begin to accept and understand their own sexuality and sensuality in a better light.
With Tantric Sensual Healing we address some of these problems. This is a genuine healing process in which we first work on de-stressing the client, balance their chakras and bring about a sense of healing, peace and harmony in mind, body and spirit. Once this is achieved, only then do we start working with their sensual and sexual energies. What we do (and what is done by many other genuine alternative healers) can never be compared to the work done with regards to pelvic or erotic massage!
It is a journey into which you surrender in to bliss, you feel and experience the changes in your physical body, you experience an energy shift, and you begin to understand the changes in your attitude towrds yourself and your sexuality. This healing assists you in being more responsible, as well as being more aware of your own sexual energy and that of others.
What an amazing journey of self-discovery, and new awakenings in which you shed the old restrictive and sometimes abusive teachings. Yes there are the norms of society, we need to be a ware of these and we also need to behave in a manner that is not offensive to others. In all we do, we should remain honorable and respectful of ourselves and of others.
be blessed
Don
