Sensual Healing

There is sometimes a lot of misunderstanding when it comes down to sensual healing. Many believe this to be a form of sexual massage, it is more than that. When someone decides to receive sensual healing, they embark on a journey of self discovery. They become more aware of their inner thoughts, desires and energies. Sexual desire or fulfillment is part of that journey, but it is the destination you wish to arrive at.

For some, it could be a sudden awareness and healing, for others it could take longer. It is very important to focus on the inner being, learn to unlock energies and to focus on breathwork. I have come across many Tantra books, some claim to focus on Tantric Healing, some promote Tantra Sensual Healing Massage.

I believe you have to be prepared to let go, to be willing to receive healing in a gentle nuturing manner. There is much preparation needed for this, to find out exactly what is needed or wanted by the client. A while back I had a client say to me that she has lost that sweet feminine essence, she had become more dominant in her life as she had to take on a leadership role in her division at work. She desperatley wanted to get in touch with her softer more feminine nature.

Together we embarked on a healing process, firstly focussing on breathwork and energies. Then a process of activating certain Chakras, after that I led her in acknowledgement excercises. Then we began the process of physical healing, using various massage techniques, sensation of Touch. She learned to appreciate life once more, she became more aware of smells and sounds when we took a walk in the park and during meditations in the park.

Only when she felt that balance had been restored, she opened herself up to sensual healing massage. In this technique crystal grids were used as well as certain gemstones for activating Chakras once more. The massage techniques were more gentle, body brushing was done with feathers to arouse the skin. Gentle rocking of the hips and full body strokes are utilised. The beauty of this healing process is that no sexual penetration is used. There are some people who would just prefer to have a sexual massage (with genital stimulation) and have no interest in healing body mind and soul. With sensual healing we have to balance mind body and soul, to work on Chakras and do full body work.

Once this is accomplished, then you will be ready to experience full body orgasm - also known as expanded orgasm - but more on this later