A man choosing a great woman .......

A man chooses a great woman as part of a spiritual journey to bump up to a higher level. A great woman is the inspiration. If a man chooses a lesser woman for lower chakra reasons—i.e. casual sex for example—he does not want to do the work required to shift his consciousness into being a great man. You can always see the character of the man by the woman he chooses. 

John Dean